life just is. meaning is on you;

as you evolve, you can start to exercise a new world perspective. depending on how you’ve been raised, it’s going to be more difficult to cultivate a new form of being - but not so much if you really want it and expose yourself to experiences that force you to get used to new outcomes. i say that because if there’s nothing wrong, then everything is alright (you can dig deeper into this and call it alchemy, but there’s no need to), and if there’s nothing wrong, you’re kind of free to do whatever you want with your life and be very successful at it.

example:

if you went through hardship and now you look at it like "damn, this really helped me develop a sense of how x, y, z are important, and i’m definitely grateful for that because now i’m a better person than i was."

then, no matter what happened to you, you overcome it with gratitude and show the universe you’re humble and open to new experiences, because there’s no failure, only success - if something went positive, amazing; if anything went negative, awesome. thus, you overcome polarity, which makes you special, because then you can manage to navigate any situation in life, no matter how “hard” this may be to others (even you in the past); and the more you do this, the more in tune and healthy you become.

and really, there’s nothing to argue. i used to be so stubborn and complain and say “no but this and this happened to me and it’s wrong to be happy with it blablablabla” - just as an excuse to be negative and full of hatred. and that's what held me back. don’t fool yourself into thinking that there’s an explanation to be bitter, because there isn’t; it will only make you sick, and make people around you sick (emotionally and physically) - i went through this and it’s not worth it. just be a better person. just love your journey and stop being mean to yourself and others. this may bother you, make you uncomfortable - and i hope so - if it does, you’re on the right path!