losers blame everything but themselves.

it's funny how we can only achieve certain things if we choose to learn the lesson necessary for that. sometimes it takes more than one attempt; for over 16 years i blamed everyone but myself for my failures (which i no longer see as failures, since they led me to be here today writing about this); the most bizarre part is that this is a very sneaky habit. pay attention to how it controls you in the smallest details.

examples:

• the government is shit and that's why i'll never be able to change my life;
• taxes are too high, that’s why i'm poor;
• i broke the glass by accident, not because i was careless;
• my classmate is gifted, so he’ll always have better grades;
• my mom didn’t pay for my college, that’s why i coudn't accomplish anything in life;
• i'm fat because i have x disease, thus i can't be a better person

these are excuses many of us use to soften our own reality and remain mediocre, weak (no matter how harmless they seem). you avoid admitting that your struggles and ordinary life are consequences of your own choices - and that’s exactly why you’ll die with 80% of your potential chained inside you. but, if you choose to sculpt a new self, understanding that it’s possible to become better every day if you’re genuinely honest with yourself, then there’s absolutely nothing in your way. You literally become unstoppable.